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Why Babies Smile
Is your baby happy to see you, or does she just have gas? Find out what your baby's smile really means.
by: Nancy Ripton
Smiling Babies
- Babies smile during sleep from the day they’re born.
- Infant smiles have nothing to do with gas.
- Your baby will respond to, and smile at, auditory stimulus (such as your voice) before visual.
- At two to three months, your baby starts to look right at you when she smiles.
- By six months, your baby will have different smiles – open mouth smiles usually indicate more joy than closed.
t’s hard not to feel overjoyed when your baby gazes adoringly into your eyes and flashes a brief, but unmistakable smile. But is she really trying to communicate her joy at seeing you, or does she simply have gas? To view the full story click here.
At What Age Should Children Start to Watch Television?
Find out what amount of television your child should watch and what age it’s okay to start.
by: Elizabeth Pantley
Baby's First TV
- Children under age two should avoid watching TV whenever possible.
- Children who watch a lot of television during their early years are at an increased risk of childhood obesity, poor social development and aggressive behavior.
- Set a TV time limit, such as no more than 30 to 60 minutes a day, and stick to it.
- The average two- to five-year-old spends 4.5 hours a day watching TV or DVDs.
- TV and DVD watching is on the rise, but the viewing of quality children’s programming, such as Sesame Street, is actually declining.
t’s hard to find an infant or toddler who hasn’t watched at least some TV, but is it good for them? Here’s how to decide when it’s okay to let your baby first watch TV and how to get the most from children’s television programming. To view the full story click here.
Surviving Toddler Power Struggles
How to end the arguing and prevent a full-blown tantrum with your toddler
by: Sharon Silver
Toddler Power Struggles
- Power struggles are how children push the envelope so they can learn boundaries in different situations.
- When you increase the intensity of your reaction to stop a power struggle, it can be scary for your child.
- You can back out of a power struggle and prevent a total tantrum by simply going silent for 10 to 60 seconds.
- Your silence captures your child's attention and shows him that you're calm and in control.
- As long as the silence isn't punitive, it quickly becomes more powerful than arguing.
t can happen anywhere, at anytime–your child wants something and you say "no." Before you know it, the arguing and negotiating have ramped up and you're in the middle of a power struggle. Fortunately, there is a fast way to fix the situation before the real tantrums begin. Here's what you need to know. To view the full story click here.
Handling Temper Tantrums
A temper tantrum can mean something different depending on your child’s age. Here’s how to decode the reasons behind the screaming and calm your child down.
by: Nancy Ripton
Handling Temper Tantrums
- Early temper tantrums are emotional outbursts that occur when a child becomes frustrated.
- Temper tantrums are more likely to occur if a child is tired or hungry.
- As your toddler gets closer to two years, it will take more than simple distraction to ease a temper tantrum.
- Avoid positive reinforcement and limit the attention you give to temper tantrums.
- Don't take it personally if your child is prone to temper tantrums.
cting out at age one can be very different from the screaming sessions that occur a year later. Here's how to handle temper tantrums at all ages: To view the full story click here.
Checklist of Early Child Development
Knowing when your child is most ready to learn key skills can help you play an important role in her development.
by: Nancy Ripton
Tracking Milestones
- Developmental milestones are averages and should be used as a general guide.
- "Windows of opportunity" are periods of time when your child is most primed for learning.
- The first two years of your child's life are crucial for all levels of her development.
- The window of opportunity for reading skills is 0-48 months, which is why it's important to read to your baby right from the start.
- Taking advantage of windows of opportunity will help your child reach important developmental milestones and lay the foundation for future learning.
hile it's fun to track your child's milestones (see first-year milestone guidelines at end of article), you shouldn't obsess if she is a week or two late in getting to one. "Milestones are averages and should be used as a general guide," says Pam Schiller, an early childhood consultant. Milestones are there to raise awareness about your baby's development. Even more important than milestones are "windows of opportunity," which are the periods of time when your child is most ready to acquire certain skills. To view the full story click here.




