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Dealing with Unwanted Parenting Advice

How to stop the steady stream of baby advice without creating a war with your family and friends.

by: Elizabeth Pantley

In This Article

Handling Unwanted Baby Advice

  • Sometimes it’s best to just smile, nod, and make a non-committal response instead of starting an argument.
  • Don’t fight every little piece of advice–pick your battles.
  • Quote a doctor. Many people accept a point of view if a professional has validated it.
  • Have a standard response and use it whenever unwanted advice comes your way.
  • Sometimes being vague helps–try avoiding confrontation by providing an elusive response.

While an occasional, well-meaning comment may be okay, too much unsolicited parenting advice can be annoying and put a strain on relationships. Here are 10 ways to respond to unwanted baby advice: 

1. Listen before you react

It’s natural to be defensive if you feel you’re being judged. Chances are, you’re not being criticized; rather, the person is sharing what they feel to be valuable insight. Listen before you react. And, rather than starting an argument, it’s sometimes best to smile, nod, and make a non-committal response such as: “Interesting!” Then, go about your business–your way.

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